Ibn Dhakwan on Gender: Lowering the gaze for beardless young boys

Uthman ibn Salih reported: Al-Hasan ibn Dhakwan, may Allah have mercy on him, said, “Do not sit with young boy singers, for their appearance is like that of women. They are an even greater temptation than young virgin girls.”

Source:  Dhamm al-Malāhī 140

Ibn Taymiyyah said, “Looking at the face of a beardless youth with passion is like looking at the face of a forbidden woman or an unrelated woman with passion, whether it is done with the passion of intercourse or the passion of arousal. If looking at his mother, his sister, or his daughter for arousal is like looking at the face of an unrelated woman for arousal, it is known to everyone that this is forbidden in the same way it is forbidden to look at the face of a beardless youth, according to the consensus of the Imams.”

Source: Majmū’ al-Fatāwá 21/245

عَنْ عُثْمَانَ بْنِ صَالِحٍ عَنِ الْحَسَنِ بْنِ ذَكْوَانَ رحمه الله قَالَ لا تُجَالِسُوا أَوْلادَ الأَغْنِيَاءِ فَإِنَّ لَهُمْ صُوَرًا كَصُوَرِ النِّسَاءِ وَهُمْ أَشَدُّ فِتْنَةً مِنَ الْعَذَارَى

140 ذم الملاهي لابن أبي الدنيا باب من عمل عمل قوم لوط

قال ابن تيمية وَالنَّظَرُ إلَى وَجْهِ الْأَمْرَدِ لِشَهْوَةِ كَالنَّظَرِ إلَى وَجْهِ ذَوَاتِ الْمَحَارِمِ وَالْمَرْأَةِ الْأَجْنَبِيَّةِ بِالشَّهْوَةِ سَوَاءٌ كَانَتْ الشَّهْوَةُ شَهْوَةَ الْوَطْءِ أَوْ شَهْوَةَ التَّلَذُّذِ بِالنَّظَرِ فَلَوْ نَظَرَ إلَى أُمِّهِ وَأُخْتِهِ وَابْنَتِهِ يَتَلَذَّذُ بِالنَّظَرِ إلَيْهَا كَمَا يَتَلَذَّذُ بِالنَّظَرِ إلَى وَجْهِ الْمَرْأَةِ الْأَجْنَبِيَّةِ كَانَ مَعْلُومًا لِكُلِّ أَحَدٍ أَنَّ هَذَا حَرَامٌ فَكَذَلِكَ النَّظَرُ إلَى وَجْهِ الْأَمْرَدِ بِاتِّفَاقِ الْأَئِمَّةِ

21/245 مجموع فتاوى ابن تيمية الفقه الطهارة باب نواقض الوضوء مسألة مس يد الصبي الأمرد هل ينقض الوضوء