Umar on Men: Real men are trustworthy, honorable to others

Ibn al-Mubarak reported: Umar ibn al-Khattab, may Allah be pleased with him, said, “Do not let yourselves be impressed by the roar of a man. Rather, if he fulfills the trust and restrains himself from harming the honor of people, he will truly be a man.”

Source: al-Zuhd wal-Raqā’iq 681

عن ابن المبارك قال عمر بن الخطاب رضي الله عنه لا يُعْجِبَنَّكُمْ مِنَ الرَّجُلِ طَنْطَنَتُهُ وَلَكِنَّهُ مَنْ أَدَّى الأمَانَةَ وَكَفَّ عَنْ أَعْرَاضِ النَّاسِ فَهُوَ الرَّجُلُ

681 الزهد والرقائق لابن المبارك